Corona outbreak / Anxiety and. Psychological Precautions .

How are we affected by the Corona Outbreak  Psychologically . Nowadays everybody is spreading word in all the social media and when we come a cross  any news related to corona outbreak we automatically develop a tendency to wash our hands ,arms and other part of the body  . Corona is dangerous yes but what about the psychological components of the affection of outbreak this components mostly involves Anxiety  related issues . İn my explanations ı would like to slightly touch on OCD, which is an abbreviation of Obsessive -compulsive disorder, which is a mental disorder in which people have unwanted and repeated thoughts, feelings, ideas and behaviors that drive them to do something over and over (compulsions)  we could not label anybody due to seeing these symptoms from an individual . But if we  lose the control it will be difficult to get back on track  in order to preclude this repetitive behaviors we should refrain from seeing and reading all the news most importantly the counterfeit ones . For people who were diagnosed with OCD  before living in this  condition is more difficult rather than others who has not been diagnosed , because in people with OCD   could even afraid of all the germ  and dirty environment and living in this imprecise  may make feel them uncomfortable in this context  they are worried about being exposed to AIDS ,Hepatit   and others  and they confine their life  by not going to hospitals, putting on gloves in redundant environment ,  not giving away and receiving any blood their anxiety level may be triggered by the environmental factors that they are encountering, with this deadly pandemic it is usual to see high level of anxiety for people with OCD  .  there is no such a world without anxiety so having mild level of anxiety is normal but if this evolves to aggravated anxiety it might be harmful . what can we do to relieve ourselves is just stay away from counterfeit information and use your social media platform to enjoy yourself in this days . For your children please do not exacerbate this outbreak while you are with your children because it can be traumatic for your children and be careful when you refer to outbreak.  Keep your mind puree.


Bulimia Nervosa

Bulimia nervosa is an eating disorder it is a binge eating disorder as we know binge eatinAnorexiag disorder is eating more than enough and individuals don’t want to gain weight although she wants to eat all time and it followed by a self induced vomiting and use of laxatives and diuretics to purge. They feel that they need to purge what they got during the day and thus they generally vomiting.Bulimia nervosa generaly comorbide with depression and anxiety .And after binge eating we can see compensating behavior such as fasting overexercising . And individual with bulimia nervosa they generally do every compensating behavior secretly they are done by people . Also i want to notice that purgeing may lead to many physical problem such as inbalance and dental problems .If we came to the treatment the best treatment model is cognitive behavioral therapy because cognitive therapy really affective in changing individuals attitudes thus it is the most common thearpy model that we use to treat people with bulimia nervosa.As a prevalence, it is more common in female than male . Symptoms: binge eating , purgeing and getting scared of gainig wain if you have these symptoms please take an appointment from  experienced expert  as soon as possible.

                                                         writer psychology student  Suleyman Demirgul

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Why do Narcissists cheat on their relationship partners

Not all Narcissists are cheaters

First of all to be fair i have to say that not all Narcissists cheat. Just like any other human behaviour Cheating in a relationship is a complex behavior that is governed by so many factors and not just one factor.

Yes of course the psychological makeup of Narcissists might increase the likelihood of cheating but this doesn’t mean that all Narcissists are cheaters.

So why do Narcissists cheat?

If you have been reading about Narcissists for some time then probably you already realized that Narcissists long for the Narcissistic supply or the approval they get from fans and admirers.

So if a Narcissist got into a relationship with someone and then they felt like they need approval then there is a big chance that they will try to attract others to them in order to gain the self-esteem boost they always look for.

Now in such a case and depending on the ethics of the Narcissist this might or might not lead to cheating.

They think they can replace you easily

In another article about Narcissism with the title Why do Narcissists abuse the ones they love i said that one of the biggest problems with Narcissists is that they always believe that they can attract better people to them.

Based on that belief a relationship with a Narcissist can become anything but stable for the Narcissist might decide to seek someone else as soon as any problem happen with their relationship. In my article Why tinder relationships don’t work i said that when a person believes that they can replace their lover extremely easily then they are very less likely to tolerate relationship dissatisfaction.

In other words because the Narcissist might believe that they can replace you very easily they might decide to cheat on you as soon as you make them unhappy.

They think you deserve to be punished

Because Narcissists have a very big ego their desire for revenge is always very high. When the ego of the Narcissist gets hurt they might do anything to make the person who hurt them pay for it.

If the Narcissist believed you are not treating them properly ,according to their extremely high standards, then they might think of seeking revenge against you.

In such a case the revenge can happen in the form of cheating. See Why are narcissists so dangerous & 7 reasons cheating feels so good

Narcissists are alluring

We humans are greatly controlled by our own emotions. If we do not have very high ethical values then we might end up cheating if we found a great opportunity.

Narcissists are usually very attractive and alluring. They master the art of impressing people and making them admire them. This alone can make a Narcissist very likely to cheat if they don’t have real good ethics for they might get so many good opportunities. See also Why narcissists look so good and young.

In brief Narcissists are not cheaters by nature but their life style, behaviour and personality can make the chance of cheating a bit higher than it is with normal people.

Writer Suleyman Demirgul

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is antisocial behavior associated with family member ? ( mother and father )

Is there any association between these two terms? before writing my all thoughts I would like to highlight that mother and father plays a huge role in our life we can be adult or elder how our behavior is shaped and by what ? if you think that I shaped my self without nobody you are wrong Your attitudes were shaped by your family you got everything Angry-Childfrom your early life events lets say from at the age of 2 till 20 or when your behave became determined. There is a theory which is created by Freud and Freud has many stages in his profession but one of them is associated without topic which is Object relation theory people are affected by their early childhood life object might be mother or father but the main object is especially mother because the mother is always feeding the baby and she is the one who is the closest to the baby also there is an external factor which is out of family member but we will be focusing on internal family. object relation theory affect individuals the way of act towards other if a baby was not fitted properly by her mother she probably feels neglected but who neglected him the answer is a mother and wile baby growing up baby growing with insecure also when the baby became adult they probably don’t believe anybody is additionally their behavior seems like a weird so why? to answer this question is not a big deal adult behave in an unhealthy way because of his early childhood experiences probably he faced with abuse and neglect and during childhood which causes trauma it is really complex but it is the effect if we look at antisocial behavior personality disorder who has antisocial behavior they generally confronted with that abuse and neglect how can people cope with that. the most important thing is realizing this anti socializing behavior as soon as early so we are as psychology professions help them for coping. I want mothers to be more careful when they take care of their children not just mothers also fathers as we all know plays an important role on domestic violence generally domestic violence occurs due to father please when you take action towards other in the family member be careful because which can cause many traumatic problems on your children please love your children hug them feed them emotionally too.

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